A sin unto death 

 

What is it?

 

1 John 5
16If anyone sees his brother commit a sin that does not lead to death, he should pray and God will give him life. I refer to those whose sin does not lead to death. There is a sin that leads to death. I am not saying that he should pray about that. 17All wrongdoing is sin, and there is sin that does not lead to death.

 

 

Question:  Why then does he say there's "a" sin that leads to death they shouldn't be praying about?  It seems like there's only one. 

 

Answer:

There are two continuums by which the severity of sin is judged:

 

1.        severity of sinful behavior- from worry to murder.

2.        intent - from sins of ignorance (Hebrews 5:2), to an accidental isolated incident, to a hardened heart, to high-handedly rejecting the law of Moses (see above), to a seared conscious.

 

When John says “a sin”, he is referring to the second continuum (intent), which could actually include many different types of sin.  Vincent's Word Studies draws a possible correlation between the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit (which I connect above with rejecting the law) and this “sin unto death”. 

 

If any man see (ean tiß idh). Third-class condition with ean and second aorist active subjunctive of eidon (oraw). Sinning a sin (amartanonta amartian). Present active predicate (supplementary) participle agreeing with adelpon and with cognate accusative amartian. Not unto death (mh proß qanaton). Repeated again with amartanousin and in contrast with amartia proß qanaton (sin unto death). Most sins are not mortal sins, but clearly John conceives of a sin that is deadly enough to be called "unto death." This distinction is common in the rabbinic writings and in Numbers 18:22 the LXX has labein amartian qanathporon "to incur a death-bearing sin" as many crimes then and now bear the death penalty. There is a distinction in Hebrews 10:26 between sinning wilfully after full knowledge and sins of ignorance (Hebrews 5:2). Jesus spoke of the unpardonable sin (Mark 3:29; Matthew 12:32; Luke 12:10), which was attributing to the devil the manifest work of the Holy Spirit. It is possible that John has this idea in mind when he applies it to those who reject Jesus Christ as God's Son and set themselves up as antichrists. Concerning this (peri ekeinhß). This sin unto death. That he should make request (ina erwthsh). Sub-final use of ina with the first aorist active subjunctive of erwtaw, used here as in John 17:15,20 (and often) for request rather than for question. John does not forbid praying for such cases; he simply does not command prayer for them. He leaves them to God.

-- Vincent's Word Studies

 

Wesley's explanatory notes below equate this “sin unto death” with total apostasy, reminiscent of the two Hebrews passages at top. 

 

5:16  This extends to things of the greatest importance. If any one see his brother - That is. any man. Sin a sin which is not unto death - That is, any sin but total apostasy from both the power and form of godliness. Let him ask, and God will give him life - Pardon and spiritual life, for that sinner. There is a sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for that - That is, let him not pray for it. A sin unto death may likewise mean, one which God has determined to punish with death. 

5:17  All deviation from perfect holiness is sin; but all sin is not unpardonable. 

 

 

 

 

To pray or not to pray?

 

Handing over to Satan

We know that we should pray for our brothers and sisters in Christ.  But need we pray for such as above who have knowingly and willfully rejected the law?  No, we should instead “hand them over to Satan” so that they should be “taught not to blaspheme”.

 

1 Corinthians 5:5
hand this man over to Satan, so that the sinful nature[ 5:5 Or that his body; or that the flesh] may be destroyed and his spirit saved on the day of the Lord.
(Whole Chapter: 1 Corinthians 5 In context: 1 Corinthians 5:4-6)

 

1 Timothy 1:20
Among them are Hymenaeus and Alexander, whom I have handed over to Satan to be taught not to blaspheme.
(Whole Chapter: 1 Timothy 1 In context: 1 Timothy 1:19-21)

 

How was each of the perpetrators in these two cases blaspheming?  Let’s have a closer look:

 

1 Timothy 1:18

18Timothy, my son, I give you this instruction in keeping with the prophecies once made about you, so that by following them you may fight the good fight, 19holding on to faith and a good conscience. Some have rejected these and so have shipwrecked their faith. 20Among them are Hymenaeus and Alexander, whom I have handed over to Satan to be taught not to blaspheme.

 

I shaded the word “conscience” in green, just as I did above, as it appears at the tail end of the second continuum: 

 

There are two continuums by which the severity of sin is judged: 

1.        severity of sinful behavior- from worry to murder.

2.        intent - from sins of ignorance (Hebrews 5:2), to an accidental isolated incident, to a hardened heart, to high-handedly rejecting the law of Moses (see above), to a seared conscious.

 

must not associate

1 Corinthians 5
Expel the Immoral Brother!
1It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that does not occur even among pagans: A man has his father's wife. 2And you are proud! Shouldn't you rather have been filled with grief and have put out of your fellowship the man who did this? 3Even though I am not physically present, I am with you in spirit. And I have already passed judgment on the one who did this, just as if I were present. 4When you are assembled in the name of our Lord Jesus and I am with you in spirit, and the power of our Lord Jesus is present, 5hand this man over to Satan, so that the sinful nature[1] may be destroyed and his spirit saved on the day of the Lord.
6Your boasting is not good. Don't you know that a little yeast works through the whole batch of dough? 7Get rid of the old yeast that you may be a new batch without yeast--as you really are. For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed. 8Therefore let us keep the Festival, not with the old yeast, the yeast of malice and wickedness, but with bread without yeast, the bread of sincerity and truth.
9I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people-- 10not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. 11But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat.
12What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? 13God will judge those outside. "Expel the wicked man from among you."[2]

 

This man was not only continuing in the abomination of having his father’s wife, but they were not filled with grief over it.  They continued to fellowship with this man in spite of his obvious apostasy. Paul forbids such fellowship.  Fellowship among believers includes prayer:

 

Acts 2:42
They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.
(Whole Chapter: Acts 2 In context: Acts 2:41-43)

 

It also includes the Apostles teaching and the breaking of bread.  Paul forbids this apostate man from participating in these graces through fellowship. 

 

            2 Corinthians 7

8Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it. Though I did regret it--I see that my letter hurt you, but only for a little while-- 9yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us. 10Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. 11See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in this matter. 12So even though I wrote to you, it was not on account of the one who did the wrong or of the injured party, but rather that before God you could see for yourselves how devoted to us you are. 13By all this we are encouraged.

 

The Corinthian Church apparently obeyed Paul’s instructions by disfellowshipping this openly sexually immoral man.  Apparently, it had the intended effect:  He repented unto salvation.  Paul then urged the Corinthians to accept him once again as a brother. 

 

2 Corinthians 2

Forgiveness for the Sinner
5If anyone has caused grief, he has not so much grieved me as he has grieved all of you, to some extent--not to put it too severely. 6The punishment inflicted on him by the majority is sufficient for him. 7Now instead, you ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. 8I urge you, therefore, to reaffirm your love for him. 9The reason I wrote you was to see if you would stand the test and be obedient in everything. 10If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have forgiven--if there was anything to forgive--I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake, 11in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes.

 

 

 

Praying for apostates

At the time of the writing, Hymenaeus, Alexander, and the sexually immoral Corinthian man were unbelievers:  Apostates who had seared their conscience by rejecting the law. 

This is the sin that leads to death.

 

1 John 5
16If anyone sees his brother commit a sin that does not lead to death, he should pray and God will give him life. I refer to those whose sin does not lead to death. There is a sin that leads to death. I am not saying that he should pray about that. 17All wrongdoing is sin, and there is sin that does not lead to death.

 

Most people would ask the question, why would you not pray for such unbelievers?  The answer could be this: 

 

1.       They already know the truth and have apostatized.  Your prayers can not override their will.  They must decide to repent.  Your confronting them with the truth might cause them to repent.  It did in the case of sexually immoral Corinthian man.

2.       Why ask God to save them when He is the one blinding them?

 

John 12

The Jews Continue in Their Unbelief
37Even after Jesus had done all these miraculous signs in their presence, they still would not believe in him. 38This was to fulfill the word of Isaiah the prophet:
   "Lord, who has believed our message
       and to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed?"[7]
39For this reason they could not believe, because, as Isaiah says elsewhere:
    40"He has blinded their eyes
       and deadened their hearts,
   so they can neither see with their eyes,
       nor understand with their hearts,
       nor turn--and I would heal them."[8] 41Isaiah said this because he saw Jesus' glory and spoke about him.

 

Obviously, He is not blinding them against their will.  They do not like His light.  They have seen it.  They reject it.  This is their choice:

 

John 3:19
This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.
(Whole Chapter: John 3 In context: John 3:18-20)

 

It is not God's will that they should perish.  It is their will that causes them to perish, since God “wants all men to be saved”:

 

1 Timothy 2
Instructions on Worship
1I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone-- 2for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. 3This is good, and pleases God our Savior, 4who wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.

 

Here Paul instructs believers to pray for everyone, including authorities.  Why?  So that we may lead peaceful and quiet lives.  Either this or the prayer is related to getting “all men” saved.  It could be both.  The more literal reading would mean that the peaceful quiet lives are good and present a good witness.  Praying for unbelievers can certainly help remind you to treat them as Christ would, and so present a strong witness for Him.  I know of only one other scripture dealing with praying for unbelievers:

 

            Mt 5:44

            "But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,

 

This passage does not usually apply here in the US, since we are not persecuted here.  So far, it appears to me that the common practice of praying for unbelievers is vaguely supported by only two scriptures.  Furthermore, there is no command in scripture that I am aware of to pray for apostates. 

 

How then do we turn them from darkness to light?  We are mainly commanded to confront them with the Gospel. It is up to them what God does from there.  It’s not like God’s going to override their will because of your prayers.

 

We are commanded to pray with/for one another as brothers.  But if someone is in a willful deadly sin we are again commanded to confront them and possibly expel them from the church, unless they repent.  By handing them over to Satan this way, we are not obligated to pray for them as a brother.  This may be what john was referring to when he said, "not that he should pray about that":  Instead he should DO SOMETHING about it.  Perhaps he is deterring cowardly prayer that replaces obedience.  For example:

 

"Lord, if it is your will for me to confront this brother in willful deadly sin, then...."

 

 

 

Praying for unbelievers

 

I wonder if cowardice is the reason churchy people replace preaching/confrontation with prayer for unbelievers.  It is very embedded in their culture.  I don’t see it in the scriptures.  Only that Paul wanted Israel to accept Messiah.

 

Heb 13:18 Pray for us, for we are sure that we have a good conscience, desiring to conduct ourselves honorably in all things.

 

It’s like he had to commend himself of worthy of prayer.  Like “hey guys, I’m lined up to receive this”.  After the Gospels, most of the prayer requests have to do with the advancement of gospel via preaching:

 

2Th 3:1

Finally, brethren, pray for us that the word of the Lord will spread rapidly and be glorified, just as it did also with you;

 

I used to think praying for unbelievers was a good way to get people thinking about preaching the Gospel to their friends, staying focused on that goal.  I’m not saying it’s a bad thing to do, but that it is overemphasized at the expense of the more biblical solution to the problem of unbelieving. 

 

I heard a missionary reply this way to a prayer request for an unbeliever’s salvation:

 

            “I don’t pray for people to get saved, but I’ll pray that you will preach the gospel to them.” 

 

The person who requested the prayer was not satisfied with that response.  She was probably doing the usual passing off of religious duty and the missionary put the buck back on her—where it belongs.

 

I have also noticed that this practice of praying for unbelievers and apostates leads to gossip.  You are supposed to confront the sinner to his face instead of violating confidentiality and spreading rumors about him in the guise of “prayer requests”.  I’ve noticed that this practice leads to an unwritten social norm of, “it’s ok to gossip about non-believers”—if it’s prompted by a “salvation prayer request”.

 

 

 

Praying for the Nations

 

God is concerned about the nations and wants them to be saved. 

 

Jonah 4:11
But
Nineveh has more than a hundred and twenty thousand people who cannot tell their right hand from their left, and many cattle as well. Should I not be concerned about that great city?"
(Whole Chapter: Jonah 4 In context: Jonah 4:10-12)

 

Psalm 2
7 I will proclaim the decree of the LORD :

He said to me, "You are my Son [1] ;
today I have become your Father. [2]
8 Ask of me,
and I will make the nations your inheritance,
the ends of the earth your possession.
9 You will rule them with an iron scepter [3] ;
you will dash them to pieces like pottery."

 

So, did God’s son ask Him for the Nations (or Gentiles)?

 

John 10
15just as the Father knows me and I know the Father--and I lay down my life for the sheep. 16I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd.

 

He prays for the Gentiles who “will listen to” His voice.  These are future believers.  He clarifies below that He is only praying for those who accept His word:

 

John 17
8For I gave them the words you gave me and they accepted them. They knew with certainty that I came from you, and they believed that you sent me. 9I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those you have given me, for they are yours.

 

Matthew 10

5These twelve Jesus sent out with the following instructions: "Do not go among the Gentiles or enter any town of the Samaritans. 6Go rather to the lost sheep of Israel. 7As you go, preach this message: 'The kingdom of heaven is near.' 8Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those who have leprosy,[2] drive out demons. Freely you have received, freely give. 9Do not take along any gold or silver or copper in your belts; 10take no bag for the journey, or extra tunic, or sandals or a staff; for the worker is worth his keep.
11"Whatever town or village you enter, search for some worthy person there and stay at his house until you leave. 12As you enter the home, give it your greeting. 13If the home is deserving, let your peace rest on it; if it is not, let your peace return to you. 14If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that home or town. 15I tell you the truth, it will be more bearable for
Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for that town.

 

There is a horrible judgment for those who reject His word.  This is the case of every apostate.  They have rejected his word and they have no excuse, for they once understood it.  Notice what verse 14 does not say:

 

14If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, stay in that home or town, and spend a lot of time praying for them.  Ask your friends to pray for them too.

 

No he does not command this.  Quite the opposite, He commands us to leave them, move on and preach the gospel to those who have not even had a chance to hear it yet. 

 

 

Moving on to the next ignorant unbeliever

 

Acts 18
5When Silas and Timothy came from Macedonia, Paul devoted himself exclusively to preaching, testifying to the Jews that Jesus was the Christ.[1] 6But when the Jews opposed Paul and became abusive, he shook out his clothes in protest and said to them, "Your blood be on your own heads! I am clear of my responsibility. From now on I will go to the Gentiles."
7Then Paul left the synagogue and went next door to the house of Titius Justus, a worshiper of God.

 

Acts 13:46
Then Paul and Barnabas answered them boldly: "We had to speak the word of God to you first. Since you reject it and do not consider yourselves worthy of eternal life, we now turn to the Gentiles.
(Whole Chapter: Acts 13 In context: Acts 13:45-47)

 

Paul confronted the Roman Jews about the hardness of their heart using the same scripture that I quoted above.

 

Acts 28

23They arranged to meet Paul on a certain day, and came in even larger numbers to the place where he was staying. From morning till evening he explained and declared to them the kingdom of God and tried to convince them about Jesus from the Law of Moses and from the Prophets. 24Some were convinced by what he said, but others would not believe. 25They disagreed among themselves and began to leave after Paul had made this final statement: "The Holy Spirit spoke the truth to your forefathers when he said through Isaiah the prophet:
    26" 'Go to this people and say,
   "You will be ever hearing but never understanding;
       you will be ever seeing but never perceiving."
    27For this people's heart has become calloused;
       they hardly hear with their ears,
       and they have closed their eyes.
   Otherwise they might see with their eyes,
       hear with their ears,
       understand with their hearts
   and turn, and I would heal them.'[1]
28"Therefore I want you to know that God's salvation has been sent to the Gentiles, and they will listen!"[2]
30For two whole years Paul stayed there in his own rented house and welcomed all who came to see him. 31Boldly and without hindrance he preached the
kingdom of God and taught about the Lord Jesus Christ.

 

 

 

 

To pray or to preach? 

 

Romans 10:14
How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them?
(Whole Chapter: Romans 10 In context: Romans 10:13-15)

 

Matthew 28

18Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in[1] the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."

 

The power to save lies within the Gospel message, not prayer. 

 

Romans 1:16
I
am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes: first for the Jew, then for the Gentile.
(Whole Chapter: Romans 1 In context: Romans 1:15-17)

 

1 Thessalonians 1:5
because our gospel came to you not simply with words, but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and with deep conviction.
You know how we lived among you for your sake.
(Whole Chapter: 1 Thessalonians 1 In context: 1 Thessalonians 1:4-6)

 

Only through the deep conviction of sin that the Gospel brings, can an unbeliever be saved.  This is true for all types of unbelievers; whether ignorant, or apostate.  The biblical emphasis and mandate is for us to first preach the gospel to those who have not even had a chance to hear it yet.  If you obey this clear scriptural command and pattern presented above, and still find plenty of time to intercede for unbelievers, and especially apostates, then good for you.  I cannot agree with making it a requirement for other Christians to obey.

 

We ARE commanded to pray for believers.  The Bible nowhere forbids praying for unbelievers, unless it is implied in “handing him over to Satan”. 

 

Ephesians 6:18
And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.
(Whole Chapter: Ephesians 6 In context: Ephesians 6:17-19)

 

However, preaching the Gospel to unbelievers is so vitally important that failing to do so can constitute cowardice, which is a type apostasy.  On the other hand, failing to pray for unbelievers only constitutes sin in the case that they are your authorities, maybe.  In light of the scant scriptural emphasis, I am surprised at the pervasiveness of this practice of praying for unbelievers.  I am even more surprised by the amount of preaching devoted to encourage Christians to follow this practice.  Not because it is a bad practice, but because it is overemphasized at the cost of more biblical prayer requests and practices.

 

Focus on the Gospel

The majority of the prayer requests in the New Testament are based around one request: 

 

Ephesians 6
18And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.
19Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel, 20for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should.

Acts 4

29Now, Lord, consider their threats and enable your servants to speak your word with great boldness. 30Stretch out your hand to heal and perform miraculous signs and wonders through the name of your holy servant Jesus." 31After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly.

Notice in Acts 4:31 how God answers this biblical type of prayer.

 


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